No, you should not get a loan to pay for private school elementary or high school.
A loan means you don’t have the money
A loan means you don’t have enough money to pay for the school. A loan means you would spend more than you have, every month. That is not sustainable for the long haul of tuition for private school which can go on for decades.
Debt has specific uses
Debt is appropriate for a business venture where you can reasonably expect to recoup it and then some – such as a highly employable four year college degree or a medical emergency. Or for a house where the deductible interest usually (depending on interest rates) makes the loan cost less than paying cash outright.
Everything else is a pants on fire debt emergency. Don’t add to it.
Here are your options
- Cut expenses
- Increase income
- Choose a lower cost school
- Choose a public school
Yup, public school is an excellent option. Seriously consider it. It is ok to not go to private school. It is not ok to destroy your family life and health in the pursuit of this singular goal.
Confront reality, and then adjust
Confront reality, whatever that may be – don’t put yourself in bondage and mortgage your future time just because you wished things were different.
Instead, you can send your kids to public school and pick up a tutors and religious education on the side to augment the education. That is an acceptable and perfectly fine version of private education. So is home schooling. Remember the goal: an education for your child that results in a balanced, centered, inquisitive and knowledgeable adult with an internal morale compass. There are lots of paths to get to the end result without selling your future on this one way of achieving your goals.