Paying for private school requires change from within.
The costs might require taking a promotion that is both good for your organization and good for your family but not in your comfort zone.
Voluntary Discomfort As Mind Training
In short, it requires you to be proficient at voluntary discomfort. This requires you to be prepared to act with integrity in the moment. And training is what prepares you.
Enter the cold shower. I know, it sounds crazy but bear with me.
This technique is quick, low cost, effective and good for you and the environment. And it makes you
appreciate the simpler things such as, oh I don’t know, room temperature air and, well, not being in a cold shower. This last part, while amusing at first, is where the power of it comes in as it changes your mind set. You build patience and tolerance to discomfort. A brief cold blast of water puts a tough meeting later in the day in perspective and makes it easier.
- Start with your shower at the normal temperature.
- After a minute or two turn it down just a little.
- Repeat until you get to cool and slightly uncomfortable
- Adjust the water temperature to make it colder still and end the show with a cold blast of water for a few seconds.
- Mind training complete.
Your voluntarily discomfort practice will enable you to focus your mental powers on what is important. Soon enough you will scoff at ‘pampering yourself’, ‘indulging’ or ‘you deserve the very best’ advertisements and correctly see them as a form of weakness.
You need the clarity of mind to shake that stuff off and decide if paying for private school is appropriate for your family and then the mental toughness to stick to it. A cold shower regimen can help tap the power of voluntary discomfort training for any worthwhile endeavor that requires focus over time.
This is Not New and Can Make You Healthier
And this is not a new form of training. Thomas Jefferson bathed his feet in cold water every morning for 50 years (they didn’t have showers).
As an added bonus it *actually* makes you healthier and tougher by increasing brown fat cells (little space heaters in your body). It might even help you stay healthier longer – read this 2015 interview with Ed Ronthalier who started the practice in 1918.